Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Be strong, my friend.

1 of my good fren's dad passed away this morning.
I was shocked to know about it as she didn't tell most of us and me about it.
It just made me recall something that I always try to remind myself since like 5yrs+ ago.
Life is unpredictable, treasure people around you.

Anyway, I was busy at work when I saw the sms.
I was really quite shocked and sad to hear that and I stopped what I was doing to think for awhile, what I should do.
I helped to inform a few of our close frens and arrange to go to the wake.
I know some of the smses were very unclear as I wasn't thinking very well and busy at work.
Then, I smsed her.
I guess thats all I can do to help her and family.
After work, I went to the wake with xj and sy.
We chipped in some money for her family.
As we were looking for the direction, I was wondering too how she is.
She actually looks like she did cry but looked strong.
Maybe she was too tired to be sad. :)
Her mum and her narrate about what happened to her dad to us.
How strong they are.
I recalled how badly I cried on the 1st and last day of my ah gong's wake and the subsequents nights when I think of him.
And, I have never really tell anyone the full details of my ah gong's illness til the day he left us.
How strong they are, really.
I don't think she will see this post.
But, LW be strong.
Your dad will watch over your mum, bro and u. :)
He will be happy watching you 3 from above I guess.

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